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Listening

Describing Listening

As a faith practice, listening involves training ourselves to recognize God’s voice (John 10:1-6) in the midst of all the other voices calling for our attention. It involves learning to be fully present in the moment, setting aside distractions that keep us from attending to and responding to God’s presence around us.

Training Ourselves to Listen Well

by Chris Schoon, Director of Thrive-US

“God gave you two ears and one mouth for a reason. You were meant to listen twice as much as you speak.”

I forget now who first admonished me with this bodily wisdom; it may have been a teacher, my dad, or some speaker at a youth gathering. I do recall joking about it with friends. It sounded a bit simplistic. But the phrasing found its way into my own conversations over time. My floundering applications aside, I’ve been discovering how listening serves as a central faith practice, teaching us to be more attentive to the Spirit than to our own agendas and priorities.

As a faith practice, listening involves training ourselves to recognize God’s voice (John 10:1-6) in the midst of all the other voices calling for our attention. It involves learning to be fully present in the moment, setting aside distractions that keep us from attending to and responding to God’s presence around us.

As we train ourselves to listen, two questions can help us: (1) Who are we listening to? and (2) How do we listen well?

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Helpful Resources for Practicing Listening

Scripture passages on listening, and a resource list of good things to read, watch, and listen to.

How Can I Practice Listening?

Practicing Listening Individually

Practicing Listening with a Group

Practicing Listening as a Family

Points to Ponder

Explore these questions in personal reflection, at home, or in small groups:

  • Are you comfortable with silence? Why or why not, and what effect does that have on your spiritual life?
  • How much of your time with God is spent in listening rather than in speaking?
  • How, where, and when do you listen for God’s voice?
  • How might the practice of listening (both to God and to one another) add new depth to your family relationships?

Quotable

“Speak as if God is listening. Listen as if God is speaking. Speak as if Spirit is speaking through you. Listen as if Spirit is listening through you.”

—Alexandra Bell (Tweet this quote)

Explore Other Faith Practices

Thrive’s Faith Practices Project explores twelve Christian practices or spiritual disciplines: sabbath, gratitude, generosity, hospitality, engaging Scripture, justice and mercy, listening, celebration, prayer, wonder, remembering, and service.